Perhaps you’ve experienced a nuru massage first hand before, perhaps you’ve only heard of it, but wish to try it out with our loved one – which is commendable. Nuru is sensual, exciting, exotic, mysterious, relaxing and extremely erotically satisfying, able to breath some fresh air into a withering sex life completely. Its rewards are plentiful, sure, but how to go about giving one if you’ve never done it before? Don’t despair – we’ve got a few tips to help you! But you’ll need some ingredients first:
- A willing and loving partner
- A shower
- Special nuru gel – if you don’t have one, try some substitutes
- Protective sheets
- And plenty of time to experiment
Prepare the environment for your nuru massage properly
Set the stage for your experience to make it really count. Dim lighting, scented candles and essential oil vaporisers can really improve the overall feeling – the same goes for a proper, relaxing music of your choice. Since you probably don’t have a special massaging mattress, protective latex sheets spread over your bed will suffice – otherwise you’re risking messing your bed. Then it’s time to prepare the nuru gel. Get a bowl of warm water and submerge the bottle of nuru gel in it so that it gets warm. Have a second bowl of warm water at your disposal – you’ll need it for later.
Start with a shower
Get undressed – or even better, slowly undress each other while kissing and caressing to your heart’s desire. Hop in the shower together and make it warm and pleasant. Clean yourself thoroughly, then get out of the shower, but don’t fully dry yourself – the gel is best applied on a slightly wet skin.
Then it’s time for the gel
Take the warm bottle of nuru gel from the bowl and squirt some of it into the second bowl of warm water that you have prepared, so as to create a desired water/gel substance. Hop on the bed, which is hopefully properly covered in latex sheets, and you may start rubbing the gel onto each other. Take your time and be gentle.
Then it’s time for the real fun to start
One of you – typically the man – will lie down on his stomach, while the girl starts to work on his back with slow strokes and kneads. After that, it’s time to start sliding the body up and down along the whole back repeatedly, using the hands as anchors. Afterwards, a sensual grinding on the lower back area and the buttocks is generally the way to proceed. When you feel that part of body has received enough attention, the man will turn to his back, and the massage will really start to gain momentum. Again, sliding up and down, grinding against the erogenous zones without, kissing, stroking – there are no holds barred really, and it’s up to your fantasy and preferences how do you wish things to proceed.
There’s no sex involved at a standard salon – at home, however…
While nuru originally evolved and stayed as a non-penetrative technique, it was because of legal restrictions. Those don’t apply to your bedroom, however, so there’s nothing stopping you from treating the whole procedure as a prolonged foreplay that can culminate in partner sex, which is guaranteed to be a lot steamier than what you may be regularly used to! So, by all means, go for it!
We hope you’ve found our advice useful and won’t shy from trying this remarkable procedure yourself. Good luck and lots of pleasure!
Are you a “nuru guru”? What advice would you give to those trying this massage for the first time? And if you’re a “newbie” – what prompted you to try it yourself? And what do you expect it to achieve? Don’t hesitate to voice your thoughts and opinions in the comment section below!